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Âé¶¹´«Ã½Ó³»­: ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô and other phrases for expressing indifference and indecision

‘Peu importe’, ‘je m’en fiche’, ‘tout me va’… how to get out of making a decision in French

Learn different French ways to say that you are unbothered by the outcome of a situation
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Brits are typically known for their polite manners and tendency to withhold opinions. When it comes to making decisions, nobody wants to take responsibility. 

In France, you might find yourself searching for the phrase: ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô (I don’t mind).

We look at how to pronounce this handy saying, when to use it and share even more ways of expressing indifference and indecision. 

What does ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô mean?

This useful expression literally translates as: that is equal to me.

It is a polite way of showing that you are not bothered about choosing the outcome of a situation.

Synonyms in English include: I do not mind, it does not matter, either or, it is all the same to me, I do not have a preference.

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How do you say ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô?

The saying, ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô can be broken down phonetically to: sa mate ay-gal.

Usually the letter T in est would be silent, however, in this case it is pronounced as the next word begins with a vowel. 

You should also note that in this context, é²µ²¹±ô should never become é²µ²¹±ôe.

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When do you say ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô?

Use this whenever you want to let someone else make a decision:

  • Statement: Où veux-tu aller manger ce soir ? - Where do you want to eat tonight?

  • Response: Hmm, ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô. - I don’t mind.

You can say it when unbothered by the outcome of a situation, one way or another:

  • Que je prenne le bus ou le métro, ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô. - Whether I take the bus or the metro, I have no preference.

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To whom do you say ça m'est é²µ²¹±ô?

It is neutral language and can be used with friends and family in a range of contexts, and is mainly heard in spoken French.

It is considered more polite than, je m’en fiche, which implies that you do not care about an outcome or are unwilling to make a decision.

Other ways to express indifference?

There are varying levels of formality when it comes to expressing indifference.

Polite:

  • Peu importe

  • C’est comme vous voulez

  • C’est vous qui choisissez

  • Tout me va

Informal:

  • Je m’en fiche

  • Je m’en moque

  • Je n’en ai rien à faire

Very informal:

  • Je m’en fous 

  • Je m’en tape